Together with their families

John Gabriel and Rona Mae

Jacob  ·  Soriano

invite you to celebrate their marriage

Saturday May 8 2027

Santa Barbara Parish Church
Santa Barbara, Iloilo, Philippines

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An invitation

We are not throwing a party so much as gathering the people who made us. Every seat in that church belongs to somebody who carried us here, and one of them is yours.

Below you will find who we are, when to arrive, and what we are asking of you on the day. When you are ready, open your invitation and let us know if you can come.

01

The two of us

A developer
and a librarian

One of us builds systems that hold information. The other keeps a building full of it. We have been quietly organising a life together ever since.

Portrait of John Gabriel Jacob

The Groom

John Gabriel Jacob

Web Developer

Builds things for the web for a living: interfaces, systems, and the occasional 2 a.m. bug fix. He is the one who reads the documentation, keeps the receipts, and hand-coded the website you are reading right now, which is his way of saying that some things are worth building carefully.

Writes code. Ships fixes. Overthinks semicolons.

Portrait of Rona Mae Soriano

The Bride

Rona Mae Soriano

University Librarian

Keeps an entire library in order and still knows exactly where every story lives. She is the calm inside the noise, the one who remembers every birthday, chooses the right words, and has been quietly writing the best chapter of this story all along.

Curates books. Keeps order. Wins every argument kindly.

Filed under

Jacob, John Gabriel.

The ordering of things / by John Gabriel Jacob.

Santa Barbara, Iloilo : Version 1.0, 2027.

xii, 1 life ; ill. ; 3 x 5 in.

  1. Interfaces.
  2. Systems architecture.
  3. Finding what was lost.

Soriano, Rona Mae.

The ordering of things / by Rona Mae Soriano.

Santa Barbara, Iloilo : Technical Services, 2027.

xii, 1 life ; ill. ; 3 x 5 in.

  1. Cataloguing.
  2. Subject headings.
  3. Finding what was lost.

Same job. Different tools.

Counting down to

Saturday, May 8, 2027

2:00 in the afternoon · Santa Barbara Parish Church

-- Days
-- Hours
-- Minutes
-- Seconds

Counting down to the wedding.

02

How we got here

The short version

  1. The beginning

    Two very different card catalogues

    One of us organises information for a living. The other organises books. It turns out those are the same job with different tools, and we have been comparing notes ever since.

  2. Somewhere in the middle

    The long, ordinary, wonderful years

    Late shifts, long drives, quiet Sundays, and a thousand small decisions that never made it into a photograph. That is where the love actually happened.

  3. Now

    A yes, and a date

    So we are gathering the people who shaped us, in a church that has stood for almost two centuries, to say the thing out loud in front of God and all of you.

03

Where

Two places,
one day

The church has been standing since the 1800s. The reception is the part we are still choosing.

Ceremony

Santa Barbara Parish Church

Parish of Santa Barbara, a National Historical Landmark

Santa Barbara, Iloilo, Philippines

2:00 in the afternoon

The Augustinian church of Santa Barbara has stood since the 1800s and is remembered as the cradle of the revolution in Panay. We would love you seated before the processional begins.

Open in maps

Reception

To be announced

We are still choosing the reception venue

Iloilo, Philippines

Immediately after the ceremony

We are still finalising where we will eat, dance and cry a little. The moment it is booked, this page updates and everyone who has already replied gets a message from us.

Details coming soon

One last thing

Will you be there?

Each guest has a personal invitation link with their name, their seats and their role in the ceremony. If you have yours, open it. If not, message us and we will send it over.

Open my invitation

#JacobAndRonaMae